Updated: Feb 2, 2020
As I sit here and think of the last year and all the studying and research I did to even figure out how to do this and do this right. Got little distracted, but the lessons learned I'm so grateful for. I was made for this. I look back at my life and all the crazy things that i have endured. The list is long, and as I open up my life and tell the story on this blog and many more to follow, you will see, that even when some would say I was way off course, I was right were I needed to be for the lessons I needed to learn to be the tool creator knows I can be to create something bigger than myself, something selfless in service to others.
My core believes this program is needed in every community because predators are in every community. The one thing that also is in every community is the stigma that we shouldn't talk about it or we should be ashamed of being forced into the position of being survivor's parents. Fathership program does not take away from the very real fact that the hero, rather survivor, is just that, a hero! That the siblings and mother are not equally affected. Fathership Program must become real, an
d I must take on this responsibility, because when I saved my child, and I was brave enough to ask for help, I was shamed more than I was given help. When dealing with professionals, I would feel judged walking in the door, like I was a monster. Several times no one even wanted to talk to me. Like I'm a guy who rides a Harley across the country for fun by himself; it's hard enough to ask for help. LOL...but to ask and feel judged? Not on my watch! Not when I have a clear idea of how to create something to not only help the fathers, but the survivors and their bond with each other. With future partners and big dreams I see a world where Fathership is in every city, with a gathering at least once a day for fathers to have a safe and professional space to just breathe and be heard...making it so they can stand strong for their family. All three legs strong....health, mind and spirit.
This is going to be an amazing ride. And its going to happen fast, it's going to be fun! We get to help families be stronger! The bus is coming by...u should get on.
Thank you for your support, I will be doing a few of these a week, if not more...and I also plan on doing some videos, some live....some edited as I learn how. LOL All to help you near or far join me on this amazing journey Of the Fathership program!
Hit me up if you wanna know how to be one of the first with a Fathership vinyl sticker.
ok it's late and I'm rambling, but this is a blog and that's what we do right? Just speak about our thoughts, dreams and ideas, and then we launch it off into the world in some kind of crazy hope you can get a whole bunch of other people to notice and dream with you.....i really find this a crazy time to be alive. And with all the dark becoming easier to see these days, it sure is nice when people stand up to help each other. That's the energy I wanna put into the world, so I'm going to have some goals and I'm going to do some fun and stupid stuff every time I hit a goal! Details in next blog. If you have ideas you would like to share, please do. Oh! And the only dumb question is the one you don't ask so spread the word this ship is sailing!!!!